Tuesday, January 18, 2011

Gay Public Displays of Affection


Having Public Display of Affection is most different when you are homosexual. I find it very much uncomfortable holding hands, hugging, or kissing my boyfriend when we are out in public because I am worried of what other people think or of what they will say or do. I hate that just because I am gay that I am pushed out of my comfort level to show affection to my boyfriend.

As much as I want to say that I don't care of what people say or think about me, I can't. I care very much so and I know that I shouldn't. My boyfriend doesn't seem to mind showing PDA in our relationship whatsoever; which I think is great because I want to become comfortable with it. I shouldn't have to hide who I am because of how someone else feels about it. All I would like is to feel comfortable holding my boyfriends hand while walking around in public.

I am just happy that I live in the time I do now because, doing that, say 40 years ago, would be unheard of. So I am thankful that I was born in a better time, but things still need to get better.

Back to School Again


Today is the first day of my second semester at College. As you may know, I have switched my major but its not to what it was in my previous post. I am going for Business now. I figure that you can go pretty much anywhere with business so it seems like a reliable option for now.

Thoughts that run through my mind going into my first class today:
-Where do I sit
-what if I get stuck next to a homophobic asshole or have to do a project with them
-when is this semester gonna be over?
-is the teacher going to suck

I hope this semester goes well and that I actually stick to doing homework and study for tests. I am so not in the mood for school right now. In my mind I am still on break enjoying working and sleeping. Now its going to be school, work, homework, and no sleep! Yuck. I am also thinking of going full time and finding another job that is going to pay better than retail. Well, wish me lots of luck because I am for sure going to need it.

Tuesday, January 4, 2011

Gays in the Military!


Yes! Finally! Don't Ask Don't Tell is no more! This is how it always should have been. There is no reason why anyone shouldn't be allowed to serve our country. But what does this mean for the Gay Soldier. Should they still be letting everyone in the military know that they are gay or not?

I was thinking more and more about that previous question and thought of how it would go over with the other soldiers. I felt as though that most people who are in the military don't accept gays, rather so, have them in the military. I feel like this is going to give a lot of potential for soldiers to gang up on gay soldiers because they are the way they are. Especially in situations where they have to shower together, etc.

Anywho, if I decide to go into the military for whatever reason, I don't think I will go parading around saying that I am gay because it could put you in a bad spot. And it's not like you can get out of the military by saying that you are gay anymore! Ha. Well, let our prayers be to our soldiers, wish them luck, and thank them for serving our country!

A to Z of My Favorite Traits

Here is a little list of my favorite things about guys from A to Z :)

A- Ambition
B- Beards
C- Curiousness
D- Dimples
E- Eyes
F- Fame
G- Gentle
H- Handsome
I- Intelligent
J- Joyful
K- Knowledgeable
L- Lively
M- Muscles
N- Natural
O- Optimistic
P- Productive
Q- Queer? (lmao)
R- Responsible
S- Spontaneous
T- Trustworthy
U- Upbeat
V- Vivacious
W- Warm
X- XXX HOT
Y- Yummy
Z- Zippy

.......And these are a few of my favorite things!