Okay, is it me or is every hott/cute gay guy just looking for hookups?!?!? Sorry, but, whatever happened to being in a relationship? Is that only for the ugly gays now? The only guys that ever want to be in a relationship are the ones that can't even live up to being decent looking (okay not all, prove me wrong!). The only hott/cute guys that I find that ever want to be in a relationship use a relationship as their advantage of getting laid, and they usually end up cheating in the end anyways so it never works out.
Several reasons why hookups SUCK!
1. Emotional Distress
After a hookup one can feel shitty because they are only being used as an object and there are no true connections between the person.
2. Reputation
Hooking up with people doesn't send a great message to people. It is NOT cool to be looked at as a slut.
3. Catching a STD
Obviously the more you sleep around with people the more your chances are of catching an STD; and lets face it, men HATE condoms!!!!! But if this is the lifestyle you choose then pleasseee, pleassee, pleasssssssssssseee use condoms and get checked up at least once every 3-6 months!!
So what I am trying to get at is that it is very hard for me to find a decent good looking guy to be in a relationship with. And no, of course not all cute/hott gays are not into relationships but I do find it to be very rare!
Oh and for the guys that hookup through CraigsList... Ew. Be careful!
I don't want to be that gay who ends up all by themselves living off the satisfaction of hookups who eventually dies of a slow depressing death from AIDs.
But hey, those are just my thoughts, what do you think?